Ladies, do I seem like a decent enough guy?

You seem like a decent guy but if you want to improve how you interact and attract girls you want to be more of a bad boy, not a players there's a difference, you appreciate women, aren't a push over, and don't just look for women to sleep with but to have relationships with, you are respectful but exciting. It sounds like to me you just need to be more adventurous, most women like a guy who seems like they need to be tamed, and they want to be the special enough girl to do that, that's why women date the "good-looking jerk" because they want to be the one to turn him from a jerk to a nice guy. you'll be able to get a girl friend looks don't matter that much but you want to take care of yourself work out and eat healthy, dress clean, and smell good, and get out more and do more activities like a sport (bike ride and running are good if a team sport isn't right for you) , club, or volunteer (that's always appealing to women) at an animal shelter, work kids, or help the homeless. Remember you want to be interesting no one wants to date a boring guy, have a sense of humor, have an equal balance between girl and guy friends, and keep busy no girl wants a lazy guy thats one of the biggest turn offs. and try not to be a loner if you can push yourself to be more of a people person the better